Wright
and SCITransformative Relationships in the light of
the Science of Creative Intelligence
Wright
and SCI
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Organization
by
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MIU President's Honor Roll,
"A+" student in SCI, applicant for Ed.D.program
in development, chapters 1-4 of 12 completed
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Heart of the Fight - in light of SCI
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 SCI Points and Qualities developed by TMMaharishi Mahesh Yogi, "quotes from the founder" Maharishi International University MIU.edu Ed.D. in Transformative Leadership & Coaching |
| Wright Graduate School empowers all students to excel in their lives and chosen careers through integrated learning, research, innovation, and experience. | MIU teaches SCI along with the academic disciplines to make the knowledge more relevant to our development of consciousness and self. |
| Part 1: Real Relationships: Breaking Myths and Building Vision |
"A Vision of Possibilities" |
| Chapter 1: The Adventure of Intimate Conflict |
Harmony is the coexistence of opposite values |
| Great Relationships Require Great Fights. The Results Are Worth It | "Well begun
is half done" Transcending is better than opposing. Action is the basis of Achievement |
| 15 Fifteen Fights that Make or Break Your Relationship | 16 Principles of the Science of Creative Intelligence that help your relationship |
| 1. The Blame Game | Thought leads to Action, beginning with our Self |
| 2. Up and Down Toilet Seats and Other Domestic Disputes | "Rest and
Activity are the steps of progress" including restroom activity |
| 3. Dueling Over Dollars | "Field of All Possibilities is the source of all solutions" |
| 4. The Hidden Middle Finger |
"Purification leads to progress" Every action has a reaction |
| 5. Sexual Dissatisfaction | Kama Sutras being couples together and create more students for MSAE. |
| 6. If You Really Love Me You'd… |
 "All love
begins with love of our Self"(universal Self of all beings) https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=2427641957256756 |
| 7. I Can't Stand the Way You… | Let there be nothing between I and U that prevents us from becoming M (Maharishis) |
| 8. You Love _____ More than Me | Love of ME (the universal SELF) is the basis of love for individuals |
| 9. Family Feuds | Relatives are always changing. TM helps bring harmony to differences.. |
| 10. Told You So's | Maharishi Jyotish is the science of prediction |
| 11. You Always _____, You Never _____ | There is
nothing Absolute in the Relative "always" and "never" are inaccurate words in the Rel. |
| 12. Deception Perceptions | Knowledge
is different in different states of consciousness Knowledge is structured in consciousness |
| 13. You're Just Like Your Mother… Or Father | Evolution progresses from mother and father to children. |
| 14. You've Changed/You Won't Change |
The Relative is always changing. The Absolute is unchanging. |
| 15. You Embarrass Me | TM helps to achieve Spontaneous Right Action |
| The Six Skills of Getting to the Heart of the Fight and Battling to Bliss | TM and TM-Sidhis Program are skills for ending conflict and achieving bliss. |
| Skill 1: Yearn | The nature of life is to want more and more |
| Skill 2: Engage | C I spontaneously becomes active |
| Skill 3: Reveal | TM reveals
our inner self to our self Manifest from the Unmanifest Life is found in layers Deeper, more subtle levels are more powerful |
| Skill 4: Liberate | Cosmic Consciousness is the ultimate state of liberation |
| Skill 5: Rematrix | Phase
transitions occur with the rise of the Age of Enlightenment Purification leads to progress |
| Skill 6: Dedicate | We give thanks to Guru Dev and the tradition of teachers |
| The Courage to Fight for Something | Inner strength is the basis of outer strength |
| Chapter 2: Love Is Messy | All love is ultimately directed towards our Self |
| Digging into the Mess | Will begun is half done |
| Life=Conflict | Life is bliss |
| Fighting for Our Life | Action is the basis of achievement and fulfillment |
| Battling Back from the Brink | TM releases stress and restores balance in our lives |
| Going in Circles, Caught in a Triangle | Nature works in cycles of rest and activity |
| The Benefits of Getting Down and Dirty | What we put our attention on grows in our lives |
| Chapter 3: Happily Never After: Getting Past Fairy-Tale Romance So You Can Fight for True Love | Knowledge - Action - Achievement - Fulfillment is the basis of happiness |
| Relationship Myths and Misconceptions | Before enlightenment we may see a mirage or think a string is a snake |
| Getting Your Relationship into and out of the Woods | TM helps
us see the woods, not just the trees Broad comprehension with simultaneous ability to focus |
| A Perfect Couple Who Went into the Woods |
You can meditate by yourself for some benefit, or
meditate in a group for even greater benefit. Guru Dev and Maharishi spent many years in the woods |
| My Fairy-Tales, False Beliefs, and Mythology | The Vedas were thought to be fairy-tales, but use anthropomorphisation to describe the Laws of Nature that structure the universe |
| A Thousand Other Self-Deceptions, Smaller but No Less Serious Misconceptions |
Before enlightenment we may see a mirage or
think a string is a snake |
| Misconception 1: If Only I Had a Relationship then I'd Be Happy | Happiness depends mostly on our relationship with our Self |
| Misconception 2: Love Means You Love and Accept Me for Who I Am | Pure Being is the basis of happiness |
| Misconception 3: Finding the One, or My Soul Mate Is the Answer | During TM we experience the Unified Field, the One basis of all. |
| Misconception 4: Compatibility Matters | The whole is greater than the sum of the parts |
| Misconception 5: Chemistry Is What Counts | Fluctuations of the Unified Field give rise to quarks, subatomic particles, then atoms, then Chemicals. |
| Misconception 6: Attraction Means It's Right | Birds of a feather flock together |
| Misconception 7: All You Need Is Love | Do less, accomplish more |
| True Romance | Truth is the basis of a fulfilling life, including romance |
| Part 2: The Art of the Fight: Six Skills for Battling Bliss | |
| Chapter 4: Yearn: Discover and Follow Your Yearning | TM helps our yearnings be in accord with the Universe's yearning for evolution and the expansion of happiness. |
| Do You Yearn? | Everyone yearns with the desire for more and more |
| What Are Yearnings, and What Do We Yearn For? | Yearnings are the faint impulse of desire for more and more, and basis of action |
| Identify Your Yearnings | TM helps our yearnings be in accord with society and mankind |
| Universal Yearnings | The Universe yearns to expand happiness |
| Make Love and War | War is due to the lack of consciousness of our underlying unity |
| Yearning versus Wanting | Yearning and wantings depend on our level of consciousness |
| The Neuroscience of Yearning | The Neuroscience of Enlightenment - by Dr. Robert K. Wallace |
| What Makes Couples Tick and What Ticks Couples Off | House Holders evolve as fast as celibates |
| We Are Designed to Yearn | Life is to enjoy |
| Lifelong Yearning | Yearning for the highest, enlightenment, puts all our other yearnings in the proper perspective |
| Childhood Yearnings Triggered in Romantic Relationships | Well begun is half done, so make sure kids have a wholesome environment. |
| Learn to Yearn | TM-Sidhis are the technology to turn yearnings into results |
| Post-Fight Reflection | Reflection
reflects on everything you do. Everything you do, reflects on you |
| Use the 'So That' Test to Find Your Yearnings | I am That. Thou art That. All This is That. |
| Where Real Relationship Magic Comes from | When the One became two, that was the beginning of relationships then 3 as the Knower, Known, and Process of Knowing (Consciousness) |
| Chapter 5: Engage! The Seven Rules for Fighting Fair and Loving Well | TM is taught in 7 steps |
| What Engaging Is and What It Is Not | |
| More of Everything: From Messy to Magnificent | The
tendency of mind is to move to a field of
greater happiness. The natural tendency of life is for more and more. |
| Tipping the Balance of Your Relationship | |
| The Ratio of Constructive to Destructive | |
| The Engagement Continuum: From Neutral Destructive to Constructive Creative | |
| The Rules of Engagement | Well begun is half done |
| The 7 Rules of Engagement (Numbered) |
7 Stages of Consciousness |
| Rule 1: Accentuate the Positive | "Whatever we put our attention on will grow stronger in our life." |
| Being There: Foundations for Engaging the Right Side | |
| Are You Ready for Creative Engagement? | Only a new seed will yield a new crop |
| Bidding: The Great Connection Device | |
| Bids for Attention: Are You Aware? | TM improves awareness, the conscious capacity of our minds |
| Keep Track as You Accentuate the Positives |
Order is present everywhere inside and outside |
| Rule 2: Minimize the Negative | Whatever
we put our attention on grows in our lives. Always entertain positivity |
| Get Off Your High Horse: The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, Withdrawal |
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| Destructive Disengaging | Giving the
"silent treatment" in the relative is not idea. Do TM in silence to improve your life, and engage Support of our collective universal Self / Nature. |
| Rule 3: No One Gets More than 50% of the Blame |
The whole is contained in every part |
| Rule 4: You Each Get 100% Responsibility for Your Happiness and Satisfaction | All action in our lives begins with our Self. |
| Rule 5: Express and Agree With the Truth, Always | Always
speak the sweet truth. Satyam eva Jayate - Truth alone triumphs |
| Rule 6: Fight for, Not Against | What we
put our attention on grows in our lives. So think positively. |
| Stop and Ask Yourself: What Are You Fighting for? | |
| Rule 7: Assume Good Will | As we think, that is what tends to happen. |
| A Couple Becomes Engaged | |
| Better Living and Loving Through Chemistry | |
| Chapter 6: Reveal: Uncover the Matrix of Your Unconscious Beliefs and Unfinished Business | |
| Blame It on the Matrix: How It Is, Is How It Was | |
| The Forming of the Matrix | |
| Implicit Memory: In the Present from the Past | |
| Rate Your Charge | |
| Recognizing Core Beliefs About Yourself and the World | |
| Identify the Limiting Beliefs in Your Fights | |
| Picking a Perfect Prick | |
| Transference and Projection | |
| Reclaim Your Projection: Find Your Triggers from the Past | |
| Law of Complementarity and Unconscious Contracts | |
| Discover Your Unspoken Contracts | |
| Screaming Schemas | |
| Do You Tend to Avoid Closeness? | |
| Do You Desire Closeness but Don't Trust Others Will Be There, or Do You Fear You'll Be Rejected | |
| Warring Attachment Patterns | |
| What Are Both of Your Attachment Schemas? | |
| Attachment Breaches: Flipping Our Lids | |
| Name It to Tame It | |
| Unfinished Business Concealed Beneath Your False Self | |
| Identify: What Are You Hiding and Protecting? | |
| Going All the Way. Get Naked: Reveal Yourself for Better Intercourse | |
| Chapter 7: Liberate: Break Free from Limiting Beliefs and Behaviors | Break boundaries |
| Free to Love | |
| Breaking Free: One Doable Task at a Time | |
| Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs About Yourself | |
| Change Beliefs with Vision and Following Through | |
| Act on Empowering Beliefs with Liberating Assignments | |
| Challenge Your Beliefs: Get to the Heart of the Matter | |
| Liberating Moves: Take Action to Break Your Old Rules for Relationship | |
| Identify Your Fear and Rock the Boat | |
| Be Real, Not Careful | |
| Talk About the Big Stuff Daily | |
| Keep Current | |
| Fight Early and Often | |
| Sweat the Small Stuff | |
| Pick a Fight | |
| Shake It Up Baby!: The Importance of Novelty and Excitement | |
| Set and Keep Your Standards High | Highest First |
| Become an Intimate Team: Join the Couples' Olympics | |
| Share Power and Follow the Highest Denominator | |
| Chapter 8: Rematrix: Reprogram Your Mind, Transform Your Relationship | |
| The Magic of Rematrixing: Reprogram Yourself and Your Relationship | |
| What Ticks Couples Off? | |
| There's No Such Thing as a Quick Fix | |
| Beware of the Tenacious Matrix | |
| Soak In the Positive | |
| The Transformational Power of Loving and Fighting | |
| Tune In, Turn On | |
| Tune In | |
| Enhance Attunement When It's Easy | |
| Strive to Attune When It's Hard | |
| From Rapture to Repair, to Rapture | |
| Repair the Rupture | |
| A Rematrixing Couple | |
| Rematrixing Tactics | |
| Plan "If thens" and Practice Them | |
| Begin to Map Your Future Matrix | Take the correct angle then let go |
| Make and Implement a Rematrixing Plan | |
| The Magical Posibilities of Rematrixing | |
| Chapter 9: Dedicate: Commit to Change for the Better, Forever | |
| From Beginning to Forever | |
| Changing Your Definition of Love to Dedication | |
| What Ticks Couples Off? Sliding Rather than Deciding. What Makes Couples Tick? Committing to Long-Term Thriving Relationships | |
| Use It or Lose It: Frontal Lobe Living and Loving | TM integrates the electrical activity of the left and right cerebral hemispheres and increases brain wave coherence as measured by EEG |
| Keep Dreaming | TM is the 4th state of consciousness transcending the Waking, Sleeping, and Dreaming states. |
| Deep Deliberate Practice | Regularity in TM morning and evening is the key to success |
| Practice the Process: Battle to Bliss | |
| Closing the Back Door | In Sthapatya Vedic homes it is good to close the southern door. |
| Scan for Your Back Doors | Beware of inauspicious influences |
| Ceiling Cracks in Closed Back Doors | |
| Learn from Your Soft Addictions | |
| Flipping on the Up | |
| Flip Up | |
| Envision Dedicating | |
| Create a Vision | |
| Courage to Love | |
| Part 3: Open Your Heart and Expand Your Vision | Stability, Adaptability, Integration, Purification and Growth |
| Chapter 10: Emotional Maturity: Intimate Living, Loving, and Fighting | |
| Growing Up, Growing Together, Growing Closer | |
| The Dynamic Drives to Be Separate and to Be Close | |
| Family Feud: From Daddy's Little Girl to Her Own Woman | |
| Intimacy Is an Inside Job | Love and
order are present everywhere inside and outside |
| Intimacy, Differentiation, and Emotional Maturity | |
| Rate Your Degree of Differentiation | |
| Emotional Maturity Facilitates Real Intimacy | |
| Chapter 11: Intimate Intelligence: The ABCs of Emotional Literacy | |
| Primary and Seconday Emotional Education | |
| My Attitude Toward My Feelings | |
| Asses Your Emotional Facility and Intimacy Skills | |
| The Four Directions of Emotional Facility: In, Out, Up, Down | |
| In | |
| Out | |
| Up | |
| Down | |
| Asses the Four Directions | |
| Exploring In | |
| Become an Emotional Detective | |
| Monitor a Feeling an Hour | |
| Coming Out | Inner is the basis of the outer |
| Express, Don't Suppress | |
| Play the Feelings Game | |
| Getting It Up, So to Speak | |
| Get It Up | TM-Sidhis and Yogic Flying help us to get up |
| Calm Down: Dealing with Arousal | |
| Check Your Pulse | Ayur Veda teaches us how to check our own pulse |
| The Hint for Men From Bob | |
| Time Outs Are Not Just for Kids | Students practicing TM at MSAE perform well on standardized tests |
| Using Time Outs Well | Rest and activity are the steps of progress |
| Early Warning: Down Regulating with Body Signals | |
| Bridging Back to Your Relationship: Re-engaging, Resolving, Reconnecting | Strength of the group is based on the strength of the individual, and is synergistic |
| Activate Your Oxytocin: The Power of Touch | |
| Risk a PDA (Public Display of Affection) | |
| The Dance of Intimacy: Neural Magic of Relationship Rapport | |
| Chapter 12: The Good Fight: An Expanding Vision of What Is Possible | TM
helps expand consciousness - our ability for vision TM instruction begins with a Vision of All Possibilities |
| The Romantic Quest: The Hero's Journey | |
| Accepting the Call or Clinging to the Known World | |
| Head the Call | |
| Braving the Woods: Encountering the Dangers and Discovering Treasures | |
| The Road of Trials and Tests | The nature of life is to grow |
| The Marital Arts Way of Life | |
| Allies Bring Out Your Best On the Quest | TM first,
then go out to the world, at your best Go to the bank first, then the market place |
| Living Deeply Ever After | Transcendental deep meditation helps us live life with Support of Natural Law |
| Conscious Connection to Yourself, Each Other, and the Greater World | Cosmic Consciousness is the state of full Self knowledge, and brain waves spread to help achieve world peace and prosperity. |
Another SCI idea...
Proposal to Maharishi University in
2014
when Bitcoin was under $600/BTC - now over $60000
Sustainable Digital Currency Curriculum
The money of the Age of Enlightenment
DigitalCoinAssociation.org/SCI
